You checked her out with your own eyes!

扪心一下!

You just have to ask yourself.

扪心。

But you have to ask yourself.

但扪心一下。

I'm going to answer my own question. There might be.

我要答了，可能有方法。

I keep asking myself, " What should we do? "

我一直，我们能做些什么？

" I ask you to search your souls" .

" 请扪心。"

Ask the questions, yes, not answer them yourself.

题可以，但不能答。

I started asking why this was a couple of years ago.

几年前，我开始这为什么。

" What is 'War and Peace'? " he asked.

他“什么《战争与和平》？”

And I ask myself, have I done enough?

我扪心，我做得足够了吗？

Try asking yourself more introspective questions like did I choose my own goals?

扪心，我的目标选择的吗？

Ask yourself, what would this look like if it were fun?

扪心，如果这很有趣会什么样子？

Ask yourself in what situations you see them used, and try to keep a list.

在什么情况下会用到它们，试着列一个清单。

Ask yourself if the examples you find fit into the patterns we talked about today.

发现的例子否符合我们今天讨论的模式。

Ask yourself these personal questions and then make sure you're being realistic.

扪心这些个人题，然后确保实事求回答。

Well then ask yourself this. Why do you think we keep ending up together?

嗯，那扪心，咱俩为什么总能分而复合？

And then we ask ourselves, so what would be the most effective way to act now?

然后我们，现在最有效的行动什么？

We must ask ourselves, how will we be more tomorrow than we are today?

我们必须要扪心，我们要怎样做才能让明天比今天更好？

Then, go through and ask yourself honestly how attainable it is.

然后，扪心，这些目标有多大的可实现性。

Now, to be fair, most lies do seem likely to create unhappiness.

现在，扪心，大多数谎言似乎确实可能导致不幸福。