He’d been feeling sorry for himself, wallowing in self-pity.

【wallow】他一直自哀自，无法自拔。

Self-preservation is also good thing. You have to depend on yourself to survive.

" 自我保护" 也是好事，必须靠自己生存。但，自哀不是好事。

Colin was losing the argument and feeling sorry for himself.

科林在争论中风，感到自自哀。

It’s no good feeling sorry for yourself. It’s all your own fault.

【sorry】自哀自没有用， 这都是自己的过错。

But this talk about " I suck, " " I can't do this, " and self-pity...

但是像" 我很差劲 我不行了”自哀的话。

He was a man who spent much of his life wallowing in self pity or else engaged in an endless campaign of self-promotion.

他一生中大部分时间都在自自哀 或是在无休止地自我推销。

The young boy could have felt sorry for himself and become depressed, or he could have adopted hardened cynicism as a defense.

这个小男孩本可以自自哀， 变得抑郁，或者采取愤世嫉俗的态度作为防御。