But you talk about nurturing these relationships in a way that isn't about glossy politeness, but actual civility.

但你所说的培养这些关系的方表面的貌，而真正的貌。

Nor is it enough to say that the listener must have at least the intellectual courtesy of initially assuming that what is being said is of sufficient interest and importance to be worthy of attention.

仅仅说听众必须至少具有智力的貌，首先假设所说的内容具有足够的兴趣和重要性，值得关注，这也够的。

In November, Vogue UK ran a whole article unpicking why a slightly nothing photo they'd posted of the couple smiling politely at the launch of Holland's non-alcoholic beer line became the most-liked post in the magazine's history.

去年11月，英国版《Vogue》发表了一整篇文章，剖析为什么他们发布的一张这对夫妇在赫兰德无酒精啤酒系列发布貌微笑的照片成为了该杂志历史点赞最多的帖子。

Ser Kevan's hand went to his sword hilt, but his brother placed two fingers on his wrist and held him fast. Lord Tywin seemed unperturbed. " Tyrion, have you forgotten your courtesies? Kindly acquaint us with our...honored guests. "

凯冯爵士伸手拔剑，但他哥哥伸出两根手指，按在他的手腕，表示制止。泰温公爵动声色。" 提利昂，你的貌哪儿去了？还快帮我们介绍这几位… … 贵客。"