My mother put in great effort in taking me out to eat, making sure we visited museums and traveled abroad, basically exposing me to as much culture as she could.
It may be this enculturation of the macho tough guy being the only desirable image for a man, that's one of the reasons that men are many times more violent and aggressive than women.
Indeed we are most of us brought up in the notion that the highest motive for not doing a wrong is something irrespective of the beings who would suffer the wrong.