But you talk about nurturing these relationships in a way that isn't about glossy politeness, but actual civility.

但你所说培养这些关系方式不表面上，而真正。

Nor is it enough to say that the listener must have at least the intellectual courtesy of initially assuming that what is being said is of sufficient interest and importance to be worthy of attention.

仅仅说听众必须至少具有智力上，首先假设所说内容具有足够兴趣和重要性，值得关注，这也不够。

In November, Vogue UK ran a whole article unpicking why a slightly nothing photo they'd posted of the couple smiling politely at the launch of Holland's non-alcoholic beer line became the most-liked post in the magazine's history.

去年11月，英国版《Vogue》发表了一整篇文，为什么他们发布一张这对夫妇在赫兰德无酒精啤酒系列发布会上微笑照片成为了该杂志历史上点赞最多帖子。

Ser Kevan's hand went to his sword hilt, but his brother placed two fingers on his wrist and held him fast. Lord Tywin seemed unperturbed. " Tyrion, have you forgotten your courtesies? Kindly acquaint us with our...honored guests. "

凯冯爵士伸手拔剑，但他哥哥伸出两根手指，按在他手腕上，表示制止。泰温公爵不动声色。" 提利昂，你上哪儿去了？还不快帮我们介绍这几位… … 贵客。"