But even then, think of how fundamentally unsocial the situation is.

即便如此，请想一想，这种情境本质么地不适合社交。

And it revolved a lot more around essentially confidence games and gaining people's trust.

它更地围绕本质的心游戏和赢得人们的任展开。

But the real benefit is, like, purposely, intrinsically, voluntarily keeping a good secret.

真正的好处， 有意识地、本质、自愿地保守一个好的秘密。

But they were gone, scattered like chaff, mysteriously and subtly vanished in essence or in fact.

们不见了， 像糠秕一样四散， 神秘而微妙地从本质或事实消失了。

It was of the very essence of Lizzie's devotion that it sought instinctively the larger freedom of its object; she could not conceive of love under any form of exaction or compulsion.

Lizzie 忠诚的本质本能地寻求其对象的更大自由；她无法想象在任何形式的勒索或强迫的爱情。