7.But if the parent is more punitive, the picture grows darker: approval is always uncertain, there is a constant fear of being called arrogant or of being upbraided for something one hadn't thought about.
但如果其父母更为苛刻,那么孩子的内心会更消沉,无法确定自己是否被认可,不是在担心会被
怪太过傲慢,就是在担心会因为自己没有想到的事情而受
备。