The listener is in a different place.

者在不同的地方。

The Queen was an excellent listener.

女王陛下是一位优秀的者。

Being a good listener helps establish friendship.

做个好的者有助于建立友谊。

It's better to be a good listener than a good showman.

做好一个者比好好秀一把来得更有用。

Another way to be a good listener is to use reflective language.

一种成为优秀者的方法 是用反射语言。

They also sometimes cause the listener to correct your statement.

它们有时也会者纠正你所说的话。

And... sorry, lastly, it's also important to be an active listener.

最后，做一个积极的者也很重要。

They allow the listener to enter the story, making them more open to learning.

还会者可以进入故事，他们更愿意了解。

Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

做优秀的者，鼓励对方谈论他自己。

So how do you become a better listener?

那么，你如何才能成为一个更好的者呢？

If your friend is a good listener, you could simply say, " You're a good listener."

如果你的朋友是个很好的者，那你就可以直接说：“你是个很好的者。”

I think that that goes hand in hand with being a good listener.

我认为这与成为一个好的者密切相关。

And when the other person is speaking, make sure you are being an active listener.

当别人说话的时候，确保你是一个积极的者。

(6) Deep relationships Introverts are great listeners.

（6）深层关系内向的人是很好的者。

For this, they will tend to need a hugely supportive and patient listener.

为此，他们往往需要一个非常支持他们，并且耐心的者。

So what do we do about listening? How do we become better listeners?

所以我们对于要做些什么？我们如何成为更好的者？

To be a better listener, to be a better partner.

做一个更好的者，做一个更好的伙伴。

So that's in a place that is away from the listener's current place.

这是要从者目前所在之处要去一个地方。

So, let's talk about listening and how to be a good listener.

那么，现在我们来讲讲， 和如何成为一个优秀的者。

They look to us for support and guidance and sometimes they just may need a listening ear.

他们向我们寻求支持和指导，有时他们只是需要一个者。