So he sort of, he would, he would show us how he cared for us, if that makes sense, rather than deep sort of physical shows of affection.

所以有， 会，会通过这种方式来表达对我们关心，如果这样说你能理解话， 而不是通过深层次身体上亲昵行为。

The gift was so apparently an offering of love he could not verbalize that I would throw my arms around him and kiss him—an act that undoubtedly perpetuated his behavior.

这些礼物如此传达着不善用言辞表达爱，这时，我便会搂住，亲吻，这亲昵行为，无疑会使再度大方。