不闻不问

But the womans can't excessively use, because of facing chemisette tears, the man is always in fear uneasy, frighten into inaction, the Yao stop one's ears and the Yao absquatulate.

但女能过多地使用，因为面对女的泪水，男总是惶恐安，知所措，要么就问，要么就溜之大吉。